Safe Sex During Pregnancy: 10 Things You Need to Know

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Sex is a wonderful way for partners to remain intimate during pregnancy. It is usually safe, as long as some guidelines are followed:

-- Woman on top positions or side-lying may be more comfortable as pregnancy advances.

-- Deep penetration should be at the discretion and comfort of the mother.

-- Water or air (or any foreign objects) in the vagina should not be part of any sex play during pregnancy. Douching should never be done during pregnancy.

-- Understanding, empathy, creativity and humor will be good assets to love making during pregnancy.

-- A woman should always be able to say “no."

-- If a woman is at high risk for preterm labor, orgasm and intercourse should be avoided until the doctor or midwife has told you it is safe. Nipple stimulation should also be avoided in these circumstances.

-- Avoid intercourse (or sexual activity) if advised to do so by your care provider.

-- Intercourse should be avoided if the amniotic fluid is leaking, has ruptured, or if there is a suspicion that it may be leaking.

-- Any sexual contact should be avoided if the woman or her partner has been exposed to, or has confirmation of a sexually transmitted disease or HIV. Use of a condom and a spermicide is recommended if sexual activity cannot be avoided.

-- As term approaches, start to discuss postpartum contraception.